Could Sexual Abuse Be Planned Before Birth?

sexual abuseI experienced several episodes of sexual abuse and rape, a victim of 4 abusers until I was 18 years old.  When I came forward about it I was shunned by all that “loved” me. I am now 30 years old and I have yet to have an actual loving relationship. The only boyfriend I ever had treated me like sex was my job and so I broke up with him. Recently a 60 year old friend of my father’s approached me about having a “secret arrangement.” I turned him down, but it really makes me wonder if I am here to learn some sort of lesson about sexual abuse or if I’m here to be used/abused/taken advantage of by others, because I seem to draw those types of people to me without trying and I seem to “chase” the nice ones away. Is it really possible that something like this can be PLANNED before birth?

ANSWER: Yes, this kind of experience can certainly be one that is planned during a pre-birth planning session. A Pre-Birth Planning Reading would be very helpful in discovering why this has happened in your own life. Something I can say about it at this point is that it seems to me that at least part of the reason your soul might have planned this is to give you an experience designed to redirect you back to yourself as “Source” – source of your own emotional well-being and happiness, and possibly also to have the circumstances that would help you enrich the relationship with yourself and strengthen the connection to who you really are. Perhaps learning to love yourself unconditionally is another piece of karma you’re working with. (These are just a few of the 9 basic Karmic Lessons in the Human Evolutionary Path that my Spirit Guide has taught me about.) I am glad you are staying strong and not going for the types of relationships that are less than fully satisfying and appreciative of who you are. Keep up the good work on that.